Why Complex Trauma Wakes You Up at 3am And How It Blocks Emotional Healing
Why Complex Trauma Wakes You Up at 3AM- And How It Blocks Emotional Healing
When Sleep Feels Impossible: How Trauma Disrupts Rest and Emotional Recovery
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The Hidden Cost of Complex Trauma: A Shattered Relational Identity
Explore how complex trauma damages your core relational identity, disrupts attachment, and makes love and connection feel unsafe, even decades later
What Is the ‘Let Them Theory’? (And Why It’s Not Real Psychology)
You’ve probably seen it all over TikTok:
“Let them talk. Let them leave. Let them misunderstand you. Just... let them.”
It feels freeing, right? But while the Let Them Theory is trending now, it’s really just a rebrand of deeper teachings on boundaries, detachment, and emotional regulation.
Is EMDR a Scam? What the Science Really Says
Two people sitting across from each other at a table, one holding a coffee cup and the other writing in a notebook symbolizing the supportive, collaborative nature of EMDR therapy sessions.
EMDR vs. Brainspotting: What’s the Difference and When to Use Each (Plus Why I Add EFT Tapping)
If you're searching for trauma-informed therapy, you’ve likely heard of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Brainspotting. Both are evidence-based trauma treatments, but they function very differently in the brain and body.
As a therapist and trauma coach trained in EMDR, Brainspotting, and EFT tapping, I often work with clients who have tried traditional therapy but still feel stuck. The key difference? These approaches reach different parts of the brain and nervous system, and when used together, they can unlock powerful, lasting change.
Your Body Is Electrical: How Trauma and Beliefs Get Stored as Energy
Your body isn’t just tissue and organs — it’s an electric circuit.
Every time you have a thought, move a muscle, feel an emotion, or take a breath, electrical signals are firing across your nervous system.
In fact:
Your brain runs on electrical currents.
Your heart generates a powerful electromagnetic field.
Your cells communicate using voltage changes across their membranes.
Even your gut and immune system are influenced by bioelectric signals.
Yes — even your cells have voltage across their membranes.
Your health depends on this cellular electrical balance.
Why You’re Searching: Mental Health, Anxiety, Trauma, and Finding Real Help
Have you found yourself Googling things like:
“mental health therapist near me,” “why do I feel broken,” “how to stop overthinking,” “anxiety treatment without medication,” “trauma recovery,” “healing childhood trauma,” “nervous system regulation,” or “what is EMDR therapy?”
Maybe you’ve typed in:
“I cry every morning,” “chronic stress symptoms,” “why am I so depressed,” “emotional numbness,” “unhealed trauma signs,” “do I have CPTSD,” “what is emotional dysregulation,” “am I disassociated,” “why do I keep sabotaging my life,” or “why do I attract the same abusive partners?”
Therapy for Neurodivergent Adults: EMDR Intensives for Highly Sensitive Nervous Systems
You’re not “too sensitive.”
You’re not lazy, broken, or unmotivated.
You’re carrying a lifetime of overstimulation, invalidation, and nervous system dysregulation.
And no, 50-minute talk therapy sessions once a week don’t always cut it.
You need something deeper, more attuned, and actually built for how your brain and body process life.
When Your Chest Hurts for “No Reason” What Emotional Pain Really Means (And How to Rewire It)
Ever feel like someone is stabbing you in the chest — but your labs are normal, and nothing "bad" even happened?
You’re not imagining it. That crushing, burning, tight pain in the middle of your chest is real.
But it’s not just physical, and it’s not “just anxiety.” It’s your nervous system crying out for regulation, often after years (or decades) of living in survival mode.
Is EMDR Supposed to Take This Long? A Message for Clients with Complex Trauma
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It helps people process painful memories and experiences using bilateral stimulation (like eye movements or tapping) while focusing on the memory. For many, it can help release stored trauma and bring relief.
But for people with complex trauma — especially those with childhood neglect, abuse, abandonment, or attachment wounds jumping straight into traumatic memories can be overwhelming, confusing, and even retraumatizing.
What It Means to Work with a Trauma‑Informed Counselor or Coach
Being trauma-informed means more than understanding trauma, it means embedding trauma-awareness into every interaction. Whether you're offering counseling or coaching, this approach centers your client’s safety, agency, and healing potential.
Hijacked From the Inside: How Gut Bacteria Manipulate Your Mood, Hormones, and Cravings, and What It Has to Do With Chronic Illness
If you’ve ever felt like your cravings were possessing you , like no matter how much you want to eat clean or feel stable, something stronger takes over, you’re not imagining it.
You’re not weak. You’ve been hijacked.
And the hijacker?
Microscopic, relentless, sugar-obsessed.
We’re talking about gut bacteria, the trillions of microbes in your digestive tract that influence everything from hunger to depression to chronic pain. These microbes were supposed to work in harmony with your body. But thanks to modern living, the wrong bacteria have taken over, and they’re controlling more than just your cravings.
Burnout in High-Functioning Autism: How to Regulate Your Nervous System and Reclaim Your Energy
If You’re Tired of “Powering Through,” You’re Not Alone
You’re successful, intelligent, reliable, maybe even the one everyone leans on.
You’ve built a life that looks “fine” on the outside, career, routines, responsibilities, but underneath, you’re exhausted.
Not just tired, fried, short-circuited.
The Truth About Hunger: How Gut Bacteria Hijack Your Appetite
Most people believe hunger is a basic biological cue: your body needs food, so you feel hungry. But recent research reveals that hunger may not be as straightforward as we think.
A growing body of science points to a surprising influence behind constant cravings and excessive appetite: your gut bacteria.
Why Awareness Isn’t Healing: The Truth About Emotional Pain and Trauma Therapy
Why Awareness Isn’t Healing: The Truth About Emotional Pain and Trauma Therapy
For anyone who’s tried CBT, IFS, talk therapy, or even mindfulness and still finds themselves drowning in emotional pain — this is for you.
You’re not broken.
You’re not “resistant to therapy.”
You’ve just been given tools that treat the mind, when the pain lives in the body.
Emotional Healing for High Achievers: Rewire Unconscious Beliefs and Break Free with the TRI-RESET™ Method
High achievers are often seen as unstoppable — driven, successful, and resilient. But behind the accolades and accomplishments, many silently carry deep emotional wounds rooted in childhood experiences and unconscious beliefs.
How Trauma, Unconscious Beliefs, and Diet Impact Chronic Illness — and What Helped Me Heal
Discover how healing trauma, unconscious beliefs, and changing your diet helped me recover from interstitial cystitis — and how EMDR, EFT, and NAET work together.
12 Reasons Why EMDR Therapy DOES Not Work — And How to Fix It
Struggling with EMDR therapy? Discover 12 reasons why EMDR may not be working — plus expert tips to fix it. Online EMDR therapy can still help you heal.
Why Does EMDR Work? How EMDR Heals Trauma and Unconscious Negative Beliefs
Discover why EMDR therapy works for trauma, anxiety, and healing unconscious negative beliefs. Learn how EMDR reprocesses painful memories and rewires the brain for lasting change.
Why Paying Cash for Therapy Is Smarter Than Using Insurance (Lower Cost, More Privacy, No Diagnoses)
High Deductibles Mean You’re Paying More Than You Think
Most insurance plans today have high deductibles — often $2,000 to $5,000 or more.
Here’s what that means:
✔ You pay full price for every session until your deductible is met.
✔ You’re locked into the provider’s insurance rate — usually higher than the therapist’s cash rate.
✔ By the time you meet your deductible, you’ve already spent more than if you’d paid cash from the start.
💡 Providers are legally bound — if you tell them you have insurance and they are contracted with that company, they cannot give you their cheaper cash pay rate. It is considered insurance fraud. You’re stuck paying the higher contracted rate.